"If saying goodbye hurts so much, why do we say goodbye?
Because it hurts so much more to keep holding on to something that isnt there. Like youre hanging off a ledge and someone is jumping up and down on
your hands but you still cant let go. Like when youre little and youre being tickled you shout for it to stop because its torture, but then you go back for more, because somehow being tickled makes you feel safe and special. Holding on is like that but the torture is painful and it doesnt make you smile. Thats why were supposed to say goodbye.
Thats why were meant to let go"
Its painful and its messy. But sometimes you just have to make the break and start again.